Okay, it takes a lot more than three easy steps to steal a man’s heart. Then again, a lot of men believe in “love at first sight.” So you keep these three steps in mind the next time you see a cute guy looking your direction.
1. Catch His Attention
You must do your part to attract a man’s attention, even if your gestures are very subtle. First, try catching his attention as he looks around, gazing directly into his eyes. Eye contact is important if you want to make a connection. Flash a gentle smile when you know he is looking at you. Whenever your eyes meet, hold the gaze for a moment, longer than you ordinarily would. Without this prolonged contact, your face will not register with him.
2. Enjoy a Psychic Connection
At this point he may or may not come over to you so you have to keep the interaction going somehow. Try and make a “psychic” connection. Continue talking to him silently in your head and beckon him to come to you. Imagine what you are saying and how he is responding. Whether this actually produces any psychic attraction or is just helping to influence your body language for the positive, it works.
3. Smile and Drop It!
Wear a slight smile on your face, because smiling is always associated with good times and a safe dating situation. After smiling, try dropping your gaze to a table or to the floor. This gives the go!-signal needed for him to approach you. Here you are suggesting loud and clear that if he summons the courage to go up and talk to you, he won’t regret it. You will reward him with a fun and enlivening conversation.
After these three steps, sit or stand quietly in place and wait for him to approach. If he still is reluctant to approach you then try giving him a coy look (raised eyebrows,.tilt of your head, etc.) to repeat the process. We could go on, but chances are, he’s already next to you striking up a conversation!
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