This article isn’t meant to disparage men in anyway. Rather, it’s to expose the male persona for what it is: a big, sensitive overgrown child. This is a bit of a secret, as no man wants to be known as childlike, since machismo and power are so important to the male ID and ego. However, sometimes we don’t give them enough credit regarding their sensitive side.
Men have egos, like we all do, and they do not like rejection. Some men may enjoy the thrill of a “challenge”, but it’s only with the thought that this challenging woman can be “won over.” Rejection after rejection? It gets depressing! Knowing this, it shouldn’t surprise us to learn that men do want positive feedback when they are ready to flirt.
Men are not likely to hit on somebody that shows strong signs of discomfort and avoidance. Furthermore, men usually do not approach women who they think will be undesired by other members of the male species. It’s a very competitive society in the male world. This is why most men go for pretty and physically appealing women.
Therefore, the simplest advice that can be given to women, on how to meet men, is to pretty yourself up and be receptive to their attention. You do have to do this subtly, as too much too soon could be intimidating. Nevertheless, the basic answer as to how to create attraction all goes back to DNA and science.
A man’s DNA is programmed in such a way that it embodies an ancient hunter. The hunter always notices its “prey” moving about and exhibiting signs of healthy activity. Therefore, always strive to catch his eye by looking vibrant, happy and interested. You can learn some of these techniques from courses and packages. Learn this lesson and you will never be alone again.
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