Within that simple title there is a very provocative discussion. We all know the theory that men are hunters. Men naturally seek out women because they are the “hunter” in evolutionary theory, and for the most part, women don’t mind this. Men are visually based beings and so will respond emotionally and romantically to what they find visually appealing. If that’s the case, then why do so many women have problems meeting men?
Because the visual side of a man looks for more than just a pretty face and attractive figure. In order to begin the hunt, he has to feel welcomed; he has to get those positive vibes from the woman he likes. He gets these feelings not from emotion or intuition, but from visual stimuli. The best stimuli? Positive body language. A woman must strategically use encouraging body language in order to attract male hunters her way. She doesn’t have to obvious or shameless about it; the most subtle gestures can go a long way in grabbing attention.
Another point to consider is that men, even the most charming and confident, are easily put off by rejection. The thought of rejection—the fear of it—can control a man’s life. If they do not immediately sense positive body language, then they may hold back from introducing themselves to an otherwise beautiful woman.
Men tend to assess and scan the environment around them. In fact, it’s customary for the average man to show attention to the woman who is most likely to be receptive to his advances. A woman that looks uptight, uncomfortable or displeased will usually not merit the attention of the average man. She may still get approached, as there are men who thrive on challenges, but for the average man she will appear to be an “untouchable.”
In the end, it doesn’t matter how you look—it’s your level of approachability!
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