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 Whether you are male or female, it’s easy to see that dating women has become excruciatingly difficult in this day and age.  You might think that we as a society have evolved a great deal from Victorian times when families groomed their sons and daughters for arranged marriages.  However, much of this pressure still exists today.  We are told whom we should marry by TV and movies, by the peer pressure of friends, and by society in general.  By following other people’s advice, you are only cheating yourself out of the relationship that you want.  Let’s consider some other common mistakes made in dating women, by men, as well as a few mistakes made by women.  Men often times make the mistake of trying to act too perfect.  Because of nerves, and a mistaken sense of role playing, they may act overly nice, overly sentimental and a bit too “safe.”  Whereas they think they are being nice and respectable, they are actually eschewing their real “self.”  A man who is trying to impress a woman in this way is being a friend rather than a love interest. Women can fall into similar patterns.  A woman might believe that she is showing kindness and interest when she expresses her feelings to a man, or when she seeks out his company.  However, a man might see overly clingy behavior as an invasion of privacy.  When dating women, remember to always allow your love interest to keep her space.  The same rule applies for women dating men. Now you also have to be careful not to go to the other extreme.  Some men dating women have reasoned that they must be cocky and arrogant in order to seem attractive.  Women have similarly reasoned that they must act cold or uninterested to seem worth catching.  This is stupid behavior.  There are ways to keep things mysterious and fun without resorting to childish mind games.  When dating women, or dating men for that matter, you may feel compelled to unload your life’s story on this new person.  One part of keeping the relationship fun and interesting is to resist the urge to splurge.  Too much information too soon is sensory overload; it can scare a potential partner away.  Focus instead on having fun in courtship.  Find things in common and enjoy the moments you have together.  By learning the most common mistakes, you can learn the behavior to avoid.  Avoiding common dating errors will immediately elevate you to boyfriend or girlfriend potential.

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