We’re not saying it’s extremely hard to find a man, any man, any man that might be hanging out at the local bar. However, finding a good quality man can be a challenge in today’s society. You want to find a man that’s responsible, intelligent, mature and fun to be around. You want to find the best qualities of the sinner and the saint; someone who knows how to treat a lady, but also someone that knows how to tease, flirt and get that passion excited. How do you find Mr. Right in a world of countless Mr. Wrongs? Here are five tips to remember.
1. Start looking in places besides bars, hangouts and parties.
These places are where everyone is looking, and frankly, the most common playing fields don’t always have the best prospects for serious dating. Many women are finding good men online, at organized singles events, even in grocery stores.
2. Send out positive signals that bring men to you.
You don’t have to make a public scene, but you shouldn’t wait around until Mr. Right magically appears into your life. Use positive body language to send friendly signals over to nearby gentleman, silently encouraging them to come over and talk to you. Eye contact, smiling, and other subtle gestures can go a long way towards starting a friendship.
3. Be in close proximity to your handsome stranger.
Long before making eye contact, you have to make sure that the object of your affection can clearly see you. Hence, you may have to walk over to a location with a better view, a place where desirable men can see you apart from the crowd. (A bench, standing in the a hallway, anything that puts you in full view) Having a clear sight of you in his mind, he can start planning his next move.
4. Show movement and life.
This may sound like an odd suggestion, but instinctively speaking, hunters always seek out “prey” that are healthy looking, vibrant and full of movement. Make sure you are noticed by nearby men and that your movements are graceful, slow enough to be observed, feminine and sexy.
5. Listen and learn.
When it’s time for conversation, resist the urge to tell the potential Mr. Right your entire life’s story. Instead, consider this a time for expanding conversation. Listen to what he is saying (and encourage him to talk by asking deep questions about goals and relationships) and try and learn the essence of his character. Every thing a person says is relevant to who they are. Now is the perfect time for getting to know this handsome stranger!
