Before you work yourself into a tizzy because he hasn’t called you yet, or he is giving the impression that he may need to “slow things down’, or worse (from your perspective), you learn through the grapevine that he’s been on several other dates since yours; remember, he had a life before he met you! Just like you, he has friends, a possible an “ex” he’s still disentangling from, work obligations, family obligations, even date obligations he made before meeting you which he may feel compelled to honor (and this is indeed a noble move on his part). If he feels he’s had as miraculous a date as you feel, he might simply be trying to get his life in order so that he can proceed with what he feels is a relationship with great potential - he just may need a little more time to disentangle himself from several life encumberances! So, give him a little time, and don’t panic. If he’s genuinely “the guy”, wild horses won’t keep him away from you, so try to be patient!
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